About

I’m Dr. Brandye, and I empower women to reconnect with their passion, excitement, and desire so that they feel like a sexual goddess. You may be wondering how I do this. I show women just like YOU how to open up to new possibilities and adventures, get in tune with your senses, and explore what makes you feel sexy.

Life Love Libido was birthed out of my medical practice as an OB/Gyn and my own experiences with… (whispers) low sex drive. Many, many women were coming to me asking to have their hormones checked because they didn’t want to have sex anymore. But even more women didn’t even mention anything, and it wasn’t until I asked them if they had any concerns or problems with low libido would they admit that it was low and not making things easy at home. They would say things like, “But that’s normal at my age, right?” These women would look at me like I was crazy when I would suggest to them that sexual desire doesn’t decrease with age, and that sex should be enjoyed well into your later years.

Sexual desire is like the tide, it ebbs and flows throughout your life. When it flows, everything is great! But what do you do when it is ebbing?

You awaken your Sexual Goddess!As I started talking to my patients, I saw a common theme emerging-sex wasn’t even on their radar! Between work, kids and their activities, housework and cooking, and all the other commitments in their busy lives, they were neglecting themselves. “Superwoman” status was calling, and everyone else’s needs were more important. The problem with this thought process is that you lose yourself…you shut down. You lose your “fun-ness”, spontaneity and spunk. And your Sexual Goddess goes to sleep!

Everyone’s heard of the G-spot-a point in the vagina that can give intense pleasure when stimulated. But do you know about the B-spot?

The B-spot is your biggest sex organ-Your Brain! This is where sexual desire begins. I’m convinced that the key to awakening your Sexual Goddess lies in stimulating the B-spot, and the rest will follow…

Life Love Libido was created first and foremost to give women permission to need and want sex, to think sexy thoughts, and to enjoy their “sense”-ual experience in the world. There are a variety of ways I help women to reconnect with their Sexual Goddess: my blog on the website is a good place to start. I also host webinars and group classes online that like “The Anatomy of an Orgasm” and “Liven up Your Libido”. For those who want more privacy and individual attention, I have coaching packages available.

I am passionate about Women’s Health, and that includes sexual health. As an OB/Gyn, I am in a unique position to help women overcome barriers to sexual desire and intimacy. I received my bachelor’s degree from the University of California, Riverside and medical degree from David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA in conjunction with Charles R. Drew University of Medicine and Science. In June 2009, I completed my residency in Obstetrics and Gynecology at Rochester General Hospital in Rochester, NY. Through my own research and exploration, I have been able to single out some specific truths that help women to reconnect with their inner goddess and flourish. I work with women to begin a dialogue in the area of sex and intimacy. It all starts with being healthy, and then having a healthy relationship with yourself and what you want from life. From there, a vibrant woman emerges who is content with herself and can express that in a myriad of ways, including sexually.